Basically her and her twin brother (16) were asked to babysit our brother (5 months) but were fighting with each other and both had their moments of neglecting baby. She asked mum to come home after 4 1/2hrs then 30min after that i went over as well. When i arrived the twins were snitching on each other “he/she did this with baby”.
After hearing how they were with baby i was pissed! I lost my cool and was saying to mum “It’s not that hard” “I’m hurt they would leave him to cry” “They’re useless” etc.
Her side of the story left out a lot of context and included minor details to make herself look better and everyone else look worse. She also only replied to comments to further back herself up and ignored comments that if she replied, would have really clarified the family’s situation.
Example: She said “mum was out painting with her boyfriend” rather then “mum was doing up a store her PARTNER and father of baby is starting to give my sister and I jobs”.
I don’t have a problem with her venting, but the way shes written the post, any sane person would think shes NTA. Its annoying to think she might feel validated based off a BS story. Also, she never bothers correcting people who say wildly untrue things about our mum who is an amazing parent. Family is the most important thing to me and she has betrayed me and my trust IMO.
I want to bring it up with her but i’m not sure how.
Any questions or advice welcome.
(If you go through my comments you will find her post because i replied to quite a few people)
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Better call saul?