I (19m) have been with my gf (19f) for almost 4 years on and off. We started dating in high school for 2 years and then it started to be on and off since then. We broke up got back together and then it was one sided where I was giving my all and she wasn’t, we broke up while we were going through stuff and we stopped talking for 3+ months and went our separate ways. I went to the gym and worked on my self while she went out and partied. we started talking again at the beginning of this year, fast forward to now and it’s starting to be one sided again. Now I feel like I have all of this love to give and I’m at the point where I don’t know what to do, I want her but she isn’t ready and I really don’t want to be in a one sided relationship again, she’s told me that I don’t deserve to be in a relationship with some one who is putting in no effort and that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me until she know she can give the love and effort I deserve, I’m nervous that by the time she’s ready I won’t be as interested anymore or I will have moved on. Deep down I love her and she will always be my first love and my best friend but I just want her, no other girl has cared about me as much as her and I’ve never cared about anyone more then her. What should I do?
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I had a relationship like that at your age. I would let her go. Either she will realize that she like you more than she thought and come back – or she will move on. Which means she wasn’t meant to be with you