So me and BF booked our first holiday abroad and we’ve decided to go shopping … as we both need some clothes .
I told him I’d be ready soon and he said he would like to stay home on his computer alone . Well I said we can go Monday not a problem , as we still have plenty of time .
10 minutes after a coworker/friend called him asking if he can go and help changing a few things on his new car , he immediately said yes . Obviously I was surprised and I explained him that I’m not happy about him .
He’s now telling me that I can go alone bc he’s allowed to have friends . Of course he is I never said anything about it.
He always has an excuse and he’s always right .
I don’t think he had the right attitude.
Am I wrong or ? This always happens , he always has an excuse and tells me he doesn’t do anything else with his life , he’s always with me etc the things is he keeps changing jobs every 4-6 months he has no friends only coworkers that he sees as friends .
I don’t really like to go out he constantly complains bc I don’t have life goals , just bc i don’t like to go out and party 🙄… he’s not a party person too but for some reason my lifestyle is problem
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I’m a guy, and while I get how mechanics work is a lot more appealing than clothes shopping, I don’t condone doing what he did.
You’re rightfully angry.
He basically said no to you, and then said yes to a coworker.
I don’t think this is something to get “too” angry about, but I definitely think it warrants a talk about how you fit into his priorities.
Ooff I definitely don’t think you are in the wrong to be angry especially if y’all agreed to go that Monday. His attitude is not great and he seems like everything is a chore when getting clothes benefits him as well so I don’t get it. I read your response to the other poster, and reminded me a little of my toxic ex. This is a little argument that will get restocked but then I read the rest of him always thinking he right etc. It could open up more questions as to why he is like this and whether you are okay with him treating you like this.