So me 26m and my partner 26f have been in a relationship for 6 months, it is easily the best relationship either of us have had and we are deeply in love. This is the first time I have truly wanted to marry someone.
However, I seem trapped in overthinking about her past relationships and whether I am different, I fantasise about her with ex lovers or male friends she has.
I feel that my concerns are toxic and I don’t bring them up because I know it’s my problem and not hers.
But are these feelings normal? Or any advice on dealing with them?
3 comments
It is your insecurity deal it with before it ruins you.
Normal, when you consider that any relationship can end in a heartbeat without reason, and you have such strong feelings and are risking everything on such a flimsy foundation.
But rewards come from risk, and to be in a loving relationship has rewards which make the risk worthwhile.
So try and be aware, but not let that ruin the relationship.
It gets easier after a few times around the mulberry bush.
Stop thinking about her exes and be better than them. Focus on your job, your appearance, your personality, go exercise. Be kind to her. All this thinking about her exes is a waste of time. Get better in aspects of your life, treat her better, work on your insecurity, and boom.