No girl has ever asked me out or flirted with me. But in my 20s, lots of men wanted to fuck me, so I let them, even though it didn’t feel good and no one’s ever made me cum (not even through handjobs or blowjobs). I’ve never dated or been in a relationship.
Not too recently I started gender transition. Despite not having had any surgeries, not wearing makeup, not wearing women’s clothes, almost everyone in public perceives me as a girl now (even new coworkers since I got a new job; some said they never knew after I told them). But sex feels good if not otherworldly for the first time ever, now that I’m on hormones… when someone sticks it in me, that is. I’ve yet to use my penis for anything other than peeing.
I have one month before I have my testicles removed. This is the last time in my life I’ll ever get to know what it’s like to be a man with a woman, so I might as well experience that. So uh, do you think that is still possible? Or am I too far gone, or already doomed from the start since no one ever hit on me? If I do have any chance, what do I do and where do I begin?
edit: I am absolutely not going to hire a sex worker. I want to experience a real connection with someone who wants me, even if only for a one night stand.
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I mean can you still get hard?
Get yourself a sex worker and try it out. Now or never, right?
Sorry for asking, do you really want to transition and get rid of your testicles? You sound like you already miss them.
It’s never too late. I’m sure you can find a girl, people hook up all the time.
Are you even into girls? Because you only had sex with men, right?
If you can do it then do it. It would be a tragedy if you could get the pleasure but instead get rid of the parts completely dont wait for a woman to flirt with you take the initiative even though it is scary. and if need be try tinder or something
Like everyone else.
Walk up to a girl and introduce yourself. Be polite and entertaining and talk to them.
They might talk to you they might not. But keep trying. I’m 1000% sure that if you started telling your story 1 in 5 would be interested.
Possibly try slightly more mature people. 30’s would be a good age.
Definitely rethink if you really want your testicles removed… also get an escort or something to use your dock at least once. Also I’d recommend looking into the subreddit r/detrans before you make such a drastic change.