what are the downsides of dating you? (opposite of yesterday’s post)

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1. Im asexual

2. I go to bed at 8:30. I prioritize sleep over everything. I don’t like to go out and I don’t really like being around people.

3. I can be incredibly weird, I don’t make any noise when moving around so I will definitely scare the crap out of you and I’m like an octopus when I sleep

4. I bite

5. I worry a lot even if I try not to

6. I’m not a foodie & will always want to go home early

7. Well my reply to the other post was that the perk of dating me is that I’m ugly and can’t leave them for someone else, so idk how to top that on the negative side.

   Joking aside, probably that even though I’m extroverted, I’ll need a lot of alone time. If I have one single person around me too much or hitting me up every single day, I’ll feel suffocated, no matter how much I love them. This really isn’t something I’m able to compromise with, so someone dating me would have to be of a similar type, which might be hard to find for a monogamous LTR.

   I also won’t sleep with someone until we’re in a committed relationship. Probably not too popular, I’d imagine.

8. I’m married and my husband wouldn’t be very happy about me dating.

9. I don’t do backpacking or camping trips

10. I’m stubborn and emotionally walled in.

11. My competitive nature. I’ll be competing in everything, be it gift-giving, or sexual pleasure, or financial contribution etc.

12. I asked my girlfriend and her response was “so many..”

13. I rarely leave my house so it’s hard to meet me in the first place

14. I’m very clingy and need constant assurance from my partner that they don’t hate me or aren’t using me. I also suck at cleaning and I’m very moody.

15. I work with kids so some days I will come home exhausted and be asleep by 9:30 whether I want to or not.

16. I can be clingy at times. I am also afraid to drive ( even tho I have driver’s license ) so my partner usually drives us everywhere.

17. I have extremely stressful health conditions and I will not leave the house alone.

18. I don’t have my own group of friends.. I’m not very good at socialising, and on top of that I’ve moved around quite a bit at the time when kids make friendships.. That left me with a couple of people eather in a different country or in a different part of a country

19. I am short temptered. I am assertive and not a very agreeable person, at least, not as much as most men expect women to be. I am a not very feminie as well 😅

20. I have aggressive love language,I can’t help but bite,hug very tightly,squeeze cheeks or arms. I also have maternal love language,which I consider more as a toxic trait,I like to take care of my partner and baby them.

21. I have a personality disorder.

22. I’m a low energy, introverted person (it’s not for everyone), and although I have a job that’s flexible and pays well, when I do need to work it’s an insane and volatile time suck.

23. I’m very flirty with others even while in a relationship

24. I talk a LOT

25. I’m epileptic and I like having me time.

26. Autoimmune disorder that requires insulin, I can be a little unhinged and annoyed at times, cynical, and I think I ponder way too much.

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28. I’m easy to love and emotionally unavailable. Recipe for heartbreak

29. Food and sleep always come first.