Okay so I was with a guy for the first time and he spent like 40mins trying to get his dick inside of me but it was just not going inside I was too tight and it was hurting so much he barely penetrated me and I mean BARELY like his head was not even inside and that was like for two seconds but I went to the toilet after and there was blood did my hymen break? So does this mean I lost my virginity?
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Virginity is a fucked and outdated concept, and you shouldn’t worry about it but from a traditional standpoint no, I don’t think that counts.
We can’t say for sure. But possibly
Maybe that happened
You need to be aroused to have sex. You need to be wet and he needs to be hard. I would say that doesn’t count as losing your “virginity” but perhaps your hymen broke, or maybe your vulva tore a little bit from him trying to force his way inside.
That’s not how the hymen works btw
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/body/22718-hymen
I noticed growing up that most girls when getting it on for first time seemed to have a vigina that was like a steal trap. Nothing was going in, a teenage penis had no chance at all. But no matter a teenage boy can get off with a gust of wind so actually touching a vagina is best thing ever!
Other girls had no problem getting a penis in. That pussy was so wet and slippery he wished he had it in him to last longer and do so much more. Both events are not very great for the lady. Clamped or gushing wet, his 2 to 3 pumps are pointless and all are disappointed.
Sex sucks till your comfortable. So really your a virgin for a long time if you look at it like enjoying sex and pleasuring others. Don’t expect much for a while. Masterbate often! Really do it a ton! Helps get you comfortable with you and your lady part’s. Good luck!