I’m 23M, I want a frank answer because I’m very afraid and I want to be sure, so I am not married and I have never had sex before, but when I masturbate sometimes it ends quickly, within a minute for example. Does this mean that I suffer from premature ejaculation, and this will harm me when I get married?
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It’s more so when your with yourself you know all the perfect points as opposed to to when your with someone else you have to find there’s which takes time
28m, tbh I don’t know about the premature ejaculation but I do know stopping before you cum and building up/edging for as long as you can helps you last longer, however, I done it to the point where I last so long in bed it’s annoying and I struggle to cum as quickly as I want to. Great for one night stands I felt like a stallion but in a long term relationship it gets old.
Point is edging works but don’t get carried away.
And when the time does come for you remember sex is fun, having fun is more important than lasting long.
Hope this helps
Your partner will not be able to get you off as easily as you get yourself off. You know exactly where and how to touch yourself, and your partner will not.
But, even if you do cum fast, that’s not a huge deal. You can get your partner off with your hands or you mouth or a toy and then fuck till you cum – or you can cum, fool around a bit, and get hard again and the second round you’ll last longer.
Premature ejaculation can suck, but there are workarounds.
I don’t remember the exact quote, but it goes something like, “the more you practice solo the better you will be when you get to play a duet”
Just fyi, the first time you’re with a girl, you’re gonna blow your load in like less than a minute. It gets better with time and practice makes perfect. Don’t worry too much about it, especially if you can recover for a round 2 rather quickly.