I am a Female and when my guy went down on me, I didn’t feel much stimulated by it…
I thought it will make my toes curl but it doesn’t do much for me? Am I the only one here?
Same goes for tit sucking in my case.
Like when he is on my nipples…its nice but it doesn’t do much to stimulate me like other stuff does
Do other people have similar experiences?
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same with oral, opposite with nipple play
As with literally every sexual activity, some people like it, some people don’t like it, and some people like it in certain situations/with certain people and not others.
He ain’t the right one then
Being eaten out and having nipples played with is arousing af when your partner knows what they’re doing (bigger bonus if they’re very enthusiastic about it).
I’ve also been with someone who claimed to be very experienced and skilled but clearly was on rookie levels…that was very off putting and pretty much killed my mood.
So maybe your partner doesn’t know how to properly perform oral, or you just might be someone who doesn’t enjoy receiving oral. Practice and time will reveal that to you though!
I was wondering about the same thing : I first had one partner that had no idea what he was doing so I didn’t feel anything, but after my second try with another guy he made my legs SHAKE and make me cum 6 times in only a few minutes !
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I didn’t feel anything from oral for the first few years I was sexually active, now it’s my favourite thing.
Don’t read too much into it, try it a few more times and try it with different people.
This is dependent on both the receiver and e giver. Everyone likes different things and there is a level of skill and technique involved.
I think every person is different some people are more sensitive than others.
It’s overhyped and I hate it
Literally would rather be fisted
Study. Listen. Take criticism positively. The results are worth it. I have about gotten whiplash giving cunnilingus when it went _really_ right (we worked out a warming system after that incident).
Quick word of advice on nipple sucking. It may sound wierd, but look up the mechanics of how a baby feeds off the breast. They do it _very_ different than how many men will suck on nipples. Babies’ feeding technique releases oxytocin and other “happy” neurotransmitters that both stimulate arousal and enhance emotional closeness when feeding and a lot of it has to do with the nerves that are being stimulated. It took nipple play to the next level.
I have never enjoyed it, and every time I say that, I am told that I’ve just never had it done well. (I’ve been with over 40 ppl, there is no possible way that’s true.) Different people respond to different kinds of stimulation. Oral sex is not the right kind of stimulation for me. Maybe it isn’t for you either. That’s totally fine and normal.
Suck the clit!
Tit sucking I feel similar.
Oral for me is like a sloppier, more wet version of fingering (which I enjoy). It’s not mind blowing as some people made it out to be but I still enjoy it