when you feel instalntly mutual attraction to a woman how often do you think you are right, that she must feel actually the same.

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1. I’ve felt instant attraction to someone but I’ve never had any idea if they did or not. I would err on the side of them not feeling anything.

2. Depends how they interact with me. If they light up and act happy to see and talk to me as well then I assume they feel at least a slight bit of what I’m feeling too but I leave it at that. I can totally get how even if there’s a connection it might not be a good fit or timing so I try not to assume anything.

3. If we get along fine, I just add her to my group of friends. That seems to do fine most of the time.

4. It’s very rare! But you know.

5. Pretty much never.

6. Yeah I don’t assume anyone feels the same way anymore. I’m sure it happens but wow is that shit rare

7. Honestly, it depends on how she is with other men in comparision to how she is with me. Depending on the differences, I can usually tell whether or not she is into me.

8. I *feel* like I’m right every time, and so far I’ve been wrong every time. So now the default assumption is that I’m wrong.

9. I’ve actually done the numbers and my personal average is about 1 in every 15 feel the same.

10. I’m normally pretty oblivious so if I think it’s mutual, it’s probably mutual.

    But I’ve known women who are very touch-feely with everyone, so I’d take that into consideration.