Me(27F) and my ex(20M) knew each other less than a year when about 2 months ago, we connected primarily on a physical, sexual level. Some pushing from my side later, we entered into a relationship. My first ever. It lasted several weeks and although I’m no longer mourning our relationship, I still find myself thinking about it- and him. We enjoyed each other’s company and cared about each other, he’s told me he’s a people pleaser so I can’t tell if all the things he’s said about me(being special, breaking him down perfectly etc) is real or not. We’ve both learned and grown while we were together.
TL;DR: Trying resolve problems with my ex of several weeks, no bad feelings on either side – do I wait with getting back together?
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The answer depends on the break up. How did you both break up ? Why ?
Timeline is confusing. Within two months you started seeing each other, you “pushed” him into a relationship (what does that even mean), you broke up, and now you wonder if you should get back together? It’s a stretch to say two months together even is an “ex” and it sounds like you were together less than that. Does he want to get back together? If you have to push someone into anything it’s not mutual.
Is your ex actively wanting to get back with you or were you thinking of forcing him into it?