When I’m giving her oral, after a while she just moans a little then tells me to stop, but she doesn’t squirt or anything. She said that its super sensitive now.
I did some research and apparently that was a clit orgasm or something, and the orgasm I’ve been trying to give her was a vaginal one.
How can I do this? Any tips?
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If you did your research and figured it out that it was an orgasm then it probably wasn’t an orgasm. Every woman is different and techniques do not work across the board. Some women need direct clitoral stimulation, some need soft slow teasing stimulation. Some need soft slow gspot massage while others need hard fast finger stimulation. Ask her what she likes and don’t be afraid to try new techniques. Have her guide you and tell you play by play what feels good and what doesn’t. “Yes keep doing that… no that’s not doing anything for me… slower… softer… harder.. less pressure.. faster… more pressure.. to the left, deeper or that spot right there.
Side-point but you don’t need to squirt for it to be an orgasm.
Your research is highly questionable: That probably was not an orgasms, she’s just too raw/nerves are overstimulated.
Only about 1/3 can cum vaginally. And usually not from oral sex, how would that work?
Pls read the FAQ
So.. you need to ask her if she’s had an orgasm – there’s no way to know otherwise.
Most women don’t squirt when they orgasm
Most women don’t have vaginal orgasms – the vast majority need clit stimulation.
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The women that do have vaginal orgasms, have them during PIV (or sex toy/fingers in V) – so if you want to try and figure out if she can orgasm that way, you need to go at her pace during PIV. Ask her what feels good to her, ask her to set the pace and get her to choose the position.