Well it’s not usually a problem for me, there have been those times where I am so turned on that in less than a minute I am done! Lol
I will give the obligatory self deprecating apology, but my partner always shuts that down. She says that it makes her feel even sexier and more attractive when I can’t even control myself. And maybe because it’s an every now and then thing and not a common problem, but have other women felt this way in similar situations?
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Yep!
I would say trust your partner!
Yes. It’s especially cute when it happens unexpectedly and you can see their face change from trying to hold back, to a mix of surprise/embarrassment.
It’s a turn-on tbh. I still fantasise about his expression during our last sexual encounter
If it’s not common and not the end of the sex, yeah, it can definitely feel like a compliment. It makes me super happy remembering the first time my partner and I had sex, that he was so excited about finally getting to be with me and it felt so good he lasted like a minute and a half. I agree with your partner that it’s really sexy to feel like your partner is enjoying themselves so much they can’t even hold back. If it was more than 25% of the time we had sex, yes that would bother me, but infrequently it’s definitely not a problem. Plus, then you can just focus on her for a bit until you’re ready to go again and everyone wins.
Absolutely.
I would go so far as to say I start getting turned off if he’s lasting too long.
Since it’s not a regular thing, I find it very exciting. But you always gotta offer to get her off if she’s not done. Gotta finish the job!
Yes especially as someone who is dominant at times it is fun to see the effect I have on my husband
Once when I was younger (17ish) I took my then gf to the park, and I hadn’t nutted in a few weeks (family vacation, couldn’t choke it). We tried to fuck under a blanket and I literally slid it in to the hilt and pumped her full. She was shocked, I was relieved, ended in laughs from both of us.
Idk if she was disappointed, idk if she took it as a compliment, I was somewhat embarrassed either way though.
Once when I was younger (17ish) I took my then gf to the park, and I hadn’t nutted in a few weeks (family vacation, couldn’t choke it). We tried to fuck under a blanket and I literally slid it in to the hilt and pumped her full. She was shocked, I was relieved, ended in laughs from both of us.
Idk if she was disappointed, idk if she took it as a compliment, I was somewhat embarrassed either way though.
I’m flattered. Most of the times guys precum just watching me undress. But as I like sex to last longer I always start with a blowjob to swallow the first load. Then I lick them hard again and follow their lead. Great and long lasting sex always.
Tbh yes, especially since I had an ex who acted like I didn’t feel good enough
Yes, some really enjoy it.
Absolutelyyyyyy. Although I used to be in a relationship with a raging porn addict that would never cum with me and if he did, it was after an hour + of PIV. The thought of making a guy cum super fast is a huge fantasy to me now.
No it is super frustrating