What judgment do you make/used to make from seeing someone’s appearance?

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1. I never ever wanted to be judged by how I looked so I never judged another person.

2. I still have an autopilot tendency to judge people (men mostly) negatively if they have conventional good looks, fit toned body, etc. I usually get proven wrong, but I still can’t help it.

3. The judgment based on my appearance: I find that people are really mean to you when you’re on the bigger side. My sister is tall and skinny and everyone loves her, but I’m the opposite and I can definitely feel and see the divide.

4. I do not judge people on their external aspects which cannot be changed just like that (plastic surgery not counted) I judge people on their personal care because everyone can do something about it. (in the country where I live)

5. Their scent, nails, outfit, handshake, everything tbh. I get the whole don’t judge a book by its cover thing but I have trust issues and I’m always on guard. I judge to avoid drama and danger.