Here’s the scenario:
Everything was fine and we were texting like normal, then the conversation ended. A couple days later i notice that he hasn’t been active on instagram for a while because he usually is. I text him “are you on vacation yet” because he mentioned he was leaving soon. He hasn’t answered me not has he been active on instagram for almost a week. His snap score went up a little bit the other day, but nothing since then. (hoping for the best). We had orientation today and he wasn’t there, and his friends posted pics later and he wasn’t there either. Usually when he travels somewhere he’ll post where he’s at and turn on his location on snapchat, but he hasn’t done either of those. I am not sure if he’s ghosting me or if something happened and he has just not had access to his phone. I’ve been ghosted lots of times and i really don’t want that to happen again because i really like him and i don’t feel like he would ghost me but i’m not sure. Do i double text him something along the lines of “are you okay”? or do i just wait for him to respond. Please and thank you.
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If you have to ask, probably not. Don’t show desperation for an answer or text. It’s better you keep yourself occupied rather than wait for someone’s response when there’s so much to do.
Edit: If they aren’t interested, you can’t force them to be interested. All you can do is have other interest to fill your time. Stay busy
How long has it been since you talked or seen anything from him?
“Do i double text him or not”
“do i just wait for him to respond.”
You have a life to live! Engage with and date other guys!
If you’re *worried about him* you might Google his name to see if he appears in any news stories.
Most people you meet don’t become dates, most dates don’t become relationships, and most relationships don’t lead to marriage. As one old adage goes: “Many are called but few are chosen.”
In order for him to have been “the one” *he* would have had to see *you* as being “the one”.
At the very least a “soulmate” is someone who actually wants to be with you!
No one is so busy that they don’t have 10 seconds to send a quick reply.
***”If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.”*** – Unknown
***”Go where you are celebrated, not tolerated. If they can’t see the real value of you, it’s time for a new start.”*** – Unknown
***”Dating is primarily a numbers game…. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.”*** – Henry Cloud
Best wishes!