This probably might sound controversial but the title sums it up. I’ve been described as “attractive” and I am expected to act as an attractive which means that I am only allowed to talk in “two words” sentences, remain mysterious and hear the other person without actually giving anything to the conversation and the moment you decide “oh yeah, s/he seems like a nice person” and start engaging that’s it you are no longer “attractive”. And yea not to mention that some stuff if you said will make you a narcissist or a self centered while literally if someone else said it, it’s “funny”. WTF!!!! so….yeah and I’m not saying that it doesn’t have its privileges but Literally being judged every day sucks.
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I think that’s just you, not once have i ever been dismissed based on me looking pretty, quite the opposite actually.
I honestly don’t understand what your saying. I’ve never seen that or heard of it before.
Okay first off I’ve never heard of you being except to act attractive. Second off where dose this idea come from? From what information you gave it sounds like all in your head. Typically attractive men and woman get a lot of attention and given chances all the time as people want to be your friend or partner some people even just want to be seen assioating with good looking people. I honestly think it’s just you and that’s you need to become more self aware or get out of your own head. Or the other reason is you come across as self centered and stuck up which may to the result of people acting a certain way towards you.
I always thought it would be hard to be someone whose been told they’re attractive all the time since they were a kid. It probably builds a stressful sense of entitlement and expectations. Don’t settle