Yeah, this is a weird one.
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I’m talking specifically about masturbation. When I do it lying in bed, I ejaculate in either a “normal” or “premature” time: that is anywhere from a couple minutes (of continuous stroking) to \~15 minutes. I’m satisfied with the result most times unless it’s like only a couple minutes.
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But sitting down on a chair/stool is a different story. Depending on the stimulus (e.g. porn), it is upwards of 20 minutes – and today I took over 35 minutes – of continuous stroking! I’m not using a condom (since it’s just me) but I do use lube sometimes. It doesn’t impact the time.
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This can’t be normal. Imagine your partner having to do a handjob/BJ for 35 minutes straight! Why does it differ so much based on position?