I am in a relationship with someone and things are for the most part good. It seems like they have been very standoffish and kind of resistant to the idea of a relationship as of recently, though it isn’t always like this. I don’t want to dissuade them from a relationship because it could be very possible we have something good though part of me really isn’t sure what to make of things. Many of the factors of this relationship were completely out of my control. I like the time we have spent together and do acknowledge certain parts could be improved on though it doesn’t appear there is much to be done. I really just would like to figure out the next steps here.
It may be possible the relationship has it’s own plans and things will occur on their own if given the time and space to do so. I personally have placed all my energies in making things possible though it appears my schedule is yet to be realized. This does not appear to be true for my partner. They are moving significantly faster than me here, though I personally am of the belief I can move quickly with the right mindset.
It may be possible to reach something good soon, though as of now it appears I am not anywhere close to a proper relationship. I have no idea what is to be done about this.
Any ideas or advice is appreciated, thank you.