Weak orgasms with vibrators, but strong with fingering? (F)

So main reason I’m doing this post is because from what I’ve heard its usually the opposite. So I’ve had the typical Hitachi wand vibrator for 3 years, use it a lot. Main reason i do it though is because me and my partner live far away and we do text sex a lot, and I’ve found a way to place it so i can type and text him at the same time. We both have a lot of fun.

However I’ve found that the vibrator gives me the equivalent of a quickie: i can finish very fast and efficiently but i never feel “sated” if it makes sense. One day i even chained one after the other to find that sated sensation and passed out after 5 in a row, and it happens with all vibrators. I used an electrical toothbrush (would NOT recommend) and it was the same thing.

Fingering myself, meanwhile, takes relatively a lot longer, but I actually feel content and sated afterwards, and if it’s my boyfriend that does it? Wowie, i literally have to spend a good ten minutes recouping with pure cuddles. Its hard to explain but with my fingers I feel that sort of intense, pulsing feeling in the inside of wanting something in, so to speak, while with the vibrator I’ve never felt this.

I guess i wanted to share because I’ve heard its usually supposed to be the other way around? I remeber my vibrator being very intense when i first started using but i may have gotten used to it. Anyways if any of you have input or similar experiences, let me know! I’d love to hear from all of you.