I (23M) met a girl on a night out and we ended up having sex. I got her number and we had sex again two days later. She is poly and has also been seeing a girl, let’s call her J, for two weeks. The idea is to keep it casual.
We were meant to meet up again today, but she messaged me that she’s not sure if she can handle being poly, and wants to pay more attention to J.
I’m pretty sure I should leave it at that, but the sex is so good, but I’m not sure if I want a relationship. Should I just leave this one go?
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Yes, she’s already let you go.
Yea it’s done. If I were you I would invite both over and hang out, get to know her other girl, charm her and be a power throuple if its possible. But probably not likely
Go fuck A, B, and/or C instead.
She has your number. Tell her that if things change, she can call you. Not sure there’s much else you can do.
Mf you’ve been benched what are you asking us lol?
“The idea is to keep it casual.”
“she messaged me that she’s not sure if she can handle being poly, and wants to pay more attention to J.”
“Should I just leave this one go?”
When someone tells you they’ve made a decision to *focus on someone else*, you should move on.
Odds are if the sex was as great for her as it was for you, she’ll contact you if things don’t work out.
***”If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.”*** – Unknown
***”Dating is primarily a numbers game…. People usually go through a lot of people to find good relationships. That’s just the way it is.”*** – Henry Cloud
Best wishes!
Big dawg, she already let you go. You don’t have a choice in the matter