Are there people out there with a high sex drive who are not having sex, what do you do to fulfil your needs?

Does what you do satisfy you?

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  2. I have a remote controlled vibe that He can use to play with me and I’m usually given tasks to complete during the day. Generally though my *needs* get fulfilled once I get home.

  3. Yeah, I get myself off if needed. But my girlfriend has a high sex drive too, so it’s rare I need to.

  6. Not the world’s most shocking answer but in periods where I’m having less sex than I need I tend to just masturbate a lot, I often find the longer I go without sex the more times a day I need to make myself cum to keep the drive from getting distracting so I guess given a long enough time it would get to a point where I couldn’t be satisfied by it.

  7. I have a high sex drive. My wife has phases that she goes through. This weekend we fucked 5 times and I still jerked off 3 times.

    Other times she’ll go weeks where she would rather have a red hot fire poker in her than my dick. Those times I’ll jerk off 2 or 3 times a day.

    I find my own ways to pleasure and satisfy myself.

  8. I read 🤷🏻‍♀️ mostly erotica and romance thrillers. Masturbation only makes me cranky and ashamed.

  17. I (26f) masturbate, I watch women and guys on cam, I watch porn, go through reddit and Tumblr and sext my partner or girls I speak to.. and it definitely helps!

  18. I wait for my husband to be ready. He usually is pretty much in sync with me. But, I know that having sex 3 or 4 times a day isn’t feasible at this stage of life.

    I don’t enjoy masturbation. It makes me long for the real thing more. So I gladly just wait.

  19. I have a pretty high sex drive. I masturbate it out and get back to my work. Also I might be autosexual, don’t want to have sex with someone else I think I can satisfy myself more than anybody else can. A vibrator and a dildo is pretty handy though. Best orgasm with no strings attached or commitments👍

  25. Honestly I end up distracting myself. Even the excessive masturbation is just distraction from my real feelings and desires. Wish I could find a healthier way to deal, or channel it productively. Obviously being involved with a fellow HL person is ideal.

  26. Mostly erotica and lesbin porn (although I’m straight) I try to always carry a small vibrator in my purse which help a lot sometimes. I also get the feeling of shame but I usually go back to feeling horny soon after

  27. Never satisfied. I do masturbate and it helps for like the 5 mins afterwards, but it’s not enough.

  28. Tantric stuff about mediation has helped me a lot with the frustration and pent up energy. Check out r/tantra

  29. I just go around being sexually frustrated, and no, that isn’t satisfying.

  30. Haven’t had sex in 2 months. Have an insanely high sex drive. Husband has zero sex drive. It’s maddening, honestly. I have a couple outlets, but nothing really helps. Just sorta… I dunno, keeps this crazy horny monster at bay for a little while?
    Don’t get into a sexless marriage, kids. Unless that’s what you want, anyway.
    Also, I do not want creeps messaging me. Thanks.

  31. I read/write erotica, watch porn to masturbate to, edge for when I do have sex, or try to find someone to help me get off online.

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