My ex wife(32F) just mailed me(30M) back my wedding ring.

28 comments

1. Because she didn’t want it. It’s yours. She’s sending it back to you so you can do whatever you want with it.

2. Throw the astrology in a trash can. Then pawnshop the ring. She sent it to you, it’s your property to do with as you wish.

3. Simple she doesn’t want it either. You’re over thinking it. It’s not a secret message or has any deep meaning. She gave you back your stuff, do with it what you will.

   Also, knock off the Taurus part it adds nothing to the post.

4. You are making way too much out of this. Throw it away, give it away, whatever. Let it go. It’s just a worthless trinket, now. Stop obsessing over it.

5. Because she wants to occupy your thoughts. These abusers want to be the center of attention always. If she was a POS, throw it away, don’t message her anymore, and move on with your life.

6. It’s your exwife a car?

7. Sell it and move on I guess

8. Dude, you have a great opportunity here! Take the ring and necklace and (safely) turn up a torch and melt them down in front of a camera.

   the video and a short description could go viral on YouTube or TikTok or something. You can still sell the metal(not for as much as paid for) but who knows?

   BTW she is toying with you. She is telling she dosn’t want you or your belongings reminding her of you, and giving you the finger.

   good luck

9. Your ex wife is a full size Ford Sedan?

10. Why throw shade at us Taurus folks lol?

11. Because she’s controlling?

    As long as you respond to her outside of a lawyer’s office, she’s going to continue doing stuff like this. Sell the ring, put the money in the bank for the kids future.

12. OMG HOW COULD A TAURUS DO THAT

13. Either she doesn’t want it and doesn’t want to be responsible if you ever ask for it back, or she’s trying to get under your skin. Either way, just toss it and forget about it. There is zero benefit to you in any further contemplation on the matter. And don’t mention it or ask her about it.

14. It’s never worth reading into things, take it at face value, she sent it to you, as it’s pointless for her to keep it.
    Sounds like you really need to talk things through with someone. Do you have friends that can help you in this regard? It’s not easy, but it does eventually get better.

15. If you don’t want it, toss it away yourself. Don’t waste time trying to figure out her motivation for mailing it.

16. She didn’t want it. It’s yours to throw away or sell or whatever.

    Honestly think you are reading too much into it.

    If she hadn’t sent things that were “yours”, she might assume you’d be complaining or going to a lawyer saying she was petty. A half decent lawyer would tell her to send it and document it was sent so you can’t throw it in her face later There’s no “win” here for her either way.

    She only wants to communicate about the kids, now you’ve reached out about something outside that, why?

17. lmaooo “a Taurus”

18. She did it to you because you did it to her. You wanted to send her a message when you left it like you did. She returned the same message back to you. You’re done, so is she. Never mention it to her. If she asks, tell her you don’t remember seeing it in the box and must have tossed it in the trash.

19. She didn’t want it, so sell it. Or melt it into something new.

20. It’s not her ring. She doesn’t want it. You’re the one making a big deal out of nothing here, OP.

21. I’m sorry, I’m fixating on the Taurus part. What does that have to do with anything?

22. Don’t waste mental energy thinking about it, and for sure as hell don’t talk to her about it.

23. Taurus??? WTF?

24. You sound like such a libra right now

25. What does astrology have to do with anything?

26. Its her closure. Pawn it..or dump it. And move on.

    I threw mine in the river

27. It’s obviously because she’s a Taurus.

28. She did it to fuck with you. Just pawn em.