I am a 22 m uni student and a virgin. Never had a kiss, never had a relationship. The thing is I feel fulfilled in other aspects of life; I have good friends, in a career I like and I feel successful. I masturbate 1-2 times a day but satisfaction I get from it has not been the same for some time. I cannot stop thinking about not only sex but intimacy. Almost every night I crave the feeling of holding, hugging someone and during the day I think about sex a lot. I just imagine the feeling of penetration and it makes me feel like shit. I feel stuck. Any advice is very much appreciated, thank you guys in advance
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I feel the same way, pretty much every night I think about sex with fictional characters too, and wonder what it’d feel like to have someone cuddling with me in my bed…But this past year it’s become quite intrusive
As a 23m who was a virgin until last September, it doesn’t get any better after you have decided for the first time. Try working on your dating prospects. Look for a partner who’s into sex as much as you are. Sitting down here horny won’t really change anything for you.
Definitely look into getting into a relationship, it’ll be rough to find someone who is equally understanding and supportive but there are definitely individuals out there. As generic as this sounds, dating apps do work, tinder does work for more than just hook ups. You’ll likely find someone there who can either help short or long term