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  2. sex club can be different in various countries, mind explaining what it is in yours?

  3. Depends where you are I guess. Some can be pretty sketchy. When I was homeless one place would pad out cute girls by getting homeless or struggling girls in the city to come by and be eye candy. Really more of a trap for men then like a group of like minded people being free.

  4. If you’re talking about something like a swingers club, it varies. Some feel like going out toa club, but some are basically just a house in a neighborhood.

    The alcohol policies vary, but usually people chat it up early on in the night and try to hook up with other couples they’re interested in. A lot of people will retire to private play rooms, but some people will put on a show as well in the public play areas.

  5. Our experiences have been good. We enjoy the sexy vibes and seeing a lot of people in various stages of undress and we get to see live sex in the playrooms as well.

    A lot depends on why you are going.

  6. Bring a partner and dress to impress. For me it’s mostly about being exhibitionistic. Not really about hooking up with others. But it’s a lot of fun being watched and watching.

  7. Clubs with friendly and good social aspect are fun even if you do not play. Some are down right sleezy for various reasons. BDSM clubs on the other hand a are incredibly interesting. It is worth visiting just to quietly observe different plays from distance.

  8. We’ve been to a few swingers parties here in Aus

    They ranged from as little as 50 people and probably 100+ people

    The parties themselves are pretty hit and miss but that’s just our opinion and it really comes down to the individual. You’d turn up with your ticket or proof of purchase and head inside. The organisers would usually show you around so you know what’s what. People in the first half would usually connect with others and do all the usual small talk with a drink in hand to calm nerves (think like a typical house party)….. some places had burlesque dancers and fire dancers which was awesome.

    After a certain point one person usually starts having sex and people will usually follow. There is never any pressure to play and you go at your own pace. Generally watching other people have sex turns us on and we’ll find a nice spot to set ourselves down and get to business. Some places have a bunch of beds/mattresses for play and some places have dedicated rooms where you can have sex and people can sit around and watch or you can close the door for something more intimate.

    You’ll get people of all types and it’s an amazing experience to see a bunch of people having sex in real life rather than through a computer screen.

    The events we went to had security Incase someone got to rowdy but have never seen (only heard) people get kicked out.

  9. I can only speak to a swingers club in Canada.

    It’s very interesting. Located in a super sketchy part of town but inside nice enough. Half bar, half play rooms (orgy room, bdsm room, showoff room). The crowd is largely 30s to 50s couples in all shapes and sizes. Some dress up nice, others just strip down to their undies the moment they get in the door.

    People hang out, drink, chat, flirt, dance, then go in the back and fuck in every configuration you can imagine.

    It’s a fun time and you’ll never find a more friendly group than swingers 😂

  10. I posted about going to one. It was great fun, GF are going to another event there this weekend.

  11. Awesome if you go to a legitimate one, and have the right partner along with full discussion on the do’s and don’t before hand!!!

  12. I’ve been several times! The one I went to was once a gym converted. It had a dj with a dance floor. Then there was a dungeon room and a section for public sex. Then there was rooms that had doors and a chain. If you left the door open with the chain up meant people could watch but could not come in. If the door was closed it was private. If the door was open and the chain down people could come in and ask if they could join.

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