When I go out with friends we always have a ton of fun. However, most fun is being made during the pre-drinks. Once we hit the club, there’s always that friend who’s throwing preying eyes with the sole purpose of getting a girl and there’s almost always that empty feeling when he fails. Simply said, we’re not really going to the club for fun, but for a guaranteed disappointment.
Nowadays I usually try to avoid clubs, but there’s not too much else next to some bars (that usually feel awefully like clubs).
What about you?
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In my clubbing days (1980’s) they were for picking someone up.
Don’t know if that’s the same now. Haven’t been to a club for over 30 years lol.
I don’t really go clubbing anymore, but yes, clubbing was because I love dancing with my friends more than picking someone up. If someone in our friend group wanted to do that, we all decided to help wing-woman her, but it was and is (when I go on occasion) for dancing.
People in general everywhere are less concerned about dating since they have online dating to fall back on. 30 years ago the only way to meet a life partner was in public scenes like this.
I’m 21F and the only reason I go to the club is to have fun with friends, I don’t look for guys and brush off the ones that claim to be looking for me 🙂
I’ve gone, tried to hit on girls, been rejected and still had a pretty good time