Me and my fwb had a heated discussion over sex he said that he doesn’t like when I ride him because I don’t know how, and I got upset because he said that after I said sex last 20minutes and I feel real offended when I’ve never been told it was an issue.
When we have sex all we do is backshots and doggy style and he said he doesn’t do missionary because that’s only for if he’s is in a relationship I felt really upset n now I want to redeem myself but he makes me nervous to do anything, and when I told him find someone he can rely on he got upset and said he doesn’t want to find anyone new and only wants me but I don’t understand why if I can’t do anything
I really started to question what do he like because we have sex and he always sleeps after
How can I fix this issue and how can I please him?
TMI: I tried to end it and he accuses me of trying to fuck someone else and is upset and mad but I told him if I’m not pleasing him why fuck me and he says he doesn’t want to find no one else
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Sounds like he has little respect for you or the situation and is making himself comfy. Please yourself and find someone who actually cares.
He’s got issues he needs to address. And he sounds rather insulting. I would move on, him treating you decently should be a minimum to him getting his sexual needs met.
If he acts like this , fire him.
You deserve better every woman does
Life’s too short to fuck people who aren’t lovely, and this guy isn’t it. “I can only look people in the face when I fuck them if we are in a relationship, otherwise they are too human.” Ugh.
I don’t like the term fuckbuddy, but he deserves that term, and he’s the worst kind of fuckbuddy
Sometimes the trash starts to stink – that’s when you know it’s time to take it out. Don’t worry about redeeming yourself, you didn’t do anything wrong. Find someone who appreciates you!
Ummm who only uses missionary for someone in a relationship. Dude seems like a dick. Definitely dump him and move on. I doubt you suck at riding but if you want to get better practice riding your pillow, or work on getting used to being in a squat position. But like others have said just move on, you deserve better.
Fuck that, move on girl, you deserve better.
Rather than criticizing he needs to appreciate you on your willingness to please and let you know how he likes to be ridden
He is treating you like a consolation prize. That’s probably not what you’re after.
Basically he is using you like a fleshlight. I would buy him one as a consolation prize when you tell him to fk off.