I have been seeing someone for quite some time and I do feel like what we have is special. However, there have been times where I didn’t feel like a priority at all.
We are long distance and chat/talk on the phone most of the time. I would definitely have a need a for closeness and time spent together in person, while he on the other hand says he wants this as well, but I miss the effort to actually do come to me and be with me.
In the past 2 weeks he was really putting in effort in communication. The other day when we were talking I still could not help and stated that sometimes I do feel like he wants to take a next step, sometimes not so much.
I have also mentioned that for me I would like him to make time, and to act like he says.
Do I have valid concerns or do I sound demanding?
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Long distant relationships aren’t for everyone you know. And it’s complicated sometimes to find time to travel, not everyone can get a break from work (it would depend on where you live and what country you live in).
It’s not demanding when you want to see each other in person, but what’s stopping you from going to see him?
so you have never met in person or this somehow became long distance after meeting?
While your needs may very well be “too demanding” for some, they won’t be too demanding for the right one. That’s not to say that a lot of fighting might still be there.