My husband hs been treating me horribly for more than a year. We are separated for now and if I’m honest, I’m mad. I’m mad at myself and dissapointed. How did I let it go so far? Why have I let him talk to me this way, say things that he has said, treat me like literal s***. And I still hope for him to change. I think that is the thing I’m mostly mad at myself about.
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Because you loved him . Sounds like he not the man you knew. That takes time to heal yourself. You know you can’t change him. If he doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to see what his actions have caused thats on him. Know your boundaries and values. Ic can help you work through your feelings and start to heal. He definitely needs ic . Stay strong and best wishes