I know this isn’t news to most people and it’s practically common sense but I’ve seen a lot of post talking about someone’s crush never paying attention to them and the replies were like “maybe they’re just shy” or “you probably didn’t notice them doing it” well I just feel like putting my two cents in
From talking to women myself and seeing other guys do the same thing, from experience it is pretty rare for someone that doesn’t look in your direction to be interested/attracted to you, I know that in some cases as stated about people are shy but in most cases I don’t think that’s the case. Talked to plenty women in my life and seen other guys do it too and the woman that you constantly catch glimpsing over at you or ducking eye contact when your eyes meet is always more likely to be interested than a woman who never shows those signs, that’s just for me anyway
I think what made me think about this today was just that there was this woman in my workplace (works at a different department), beautiful woman, I desperately wanted to get her attention and get some signs of interest from her, never got a speck of a sign and today I ended up serving her…and her boyfriend, and it was literally no surprise haha, and this isn’t the first time something like this happened, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a girl that’s shown no interest in a guy actually end up being interested
Now again this isn’t certain like all things, the opposite could just as well be true but personally I think it’s mostly wishful thinking