(Throwaway because I’m embarrassed)
Alright, I’ve been struggling lately. I’ve been single for about a year and a half which during this time I’ve only had one partner before this I was in a realtionship for 7ish years where I had a pretty constant flow of attention/intimacy. Sadly, I’m just an borderline average looking dude and attempts to meet women for just fun situation ships haven’t panned out. I don’t have that \*flair\* apparently. At this point I’ve been trying to distract myself by starting new hobbies, working out, and masturbating 2-3 times a day however it’s not helping.
How do you handle the lack of consistent sex/intimacy in your lives? I’ve never really had this problem before and it’s starting to take a toll on my mental health to the point of driving me to suicidal ideation.
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The things you mentioned you did to distract yourself are actually great and beneficial for you. I recommend doing them especially working out more.
Sex is actually amazing and enjoyable but it isn’t everything life has to offer for us. If you really want to find a partner who will fulfill this need, try going out more and talking to people (at gym, workplace, etc). If you can’t find any there, try dating apps.
I also recommend making yourself busy like doing your hobbies more often or covering the shifts of your coworkers or finding a part-time job on top of a full-time job. If you don’t want/can’t do this, you can also volunteer at your local food bank/soup kitchen during your free time and find a greater purpose for your life (not to say you don’t have any).
I will give u two advices , one is bad but EASY and one is good but hard , the first one is the good one , women like a confident man and someone intresting/fun , maybe like u said u don’t have that flair as in u are not that fun/funny (which is normal i am a boring man myself) , so try to look mystrious and don’t talk too much and improve ur body language (winks , cheeky smile …), Just act like u got game and back it up with confidence and no one will suspect till u get laid , wear good parfume , women love that shit get a hormonal one , the bad advice is , hire hookers (better have one or two that would go with u to the doctor every week when u plan to have sex , it will save u time and energy and in sometimes money , good Luck