I miss my ex so much. We broke up a year ago. Every day is a battle not to reach out to her. I try to focus on myself, find my passions, work on my hobbies, be a better person, meet new people – but I can’t move away from her. I’m trying. I just want to talk. I don’t know if I am stuck in the fantasy. I wish things ended differently and we both could’ve communicated better. I’m hurt by things she did and what she said; and I know I hurt her too. We talked plenty 6 months ago and it didn’t help. Feelings were very raw. I don’t know if it’s better to be back together, I am scared to reach out, or imagine what could be. Thanks for hearing me out.
TL;DR: I miss my ex. Help.
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Be a man and not a woman and move on
Quite frankly my recommendation is to get out there and date some other gals while working on yourself. And find yourself a long term passion, something cool, that chicks will dig and other guys admire you for. When I lost the best woman in my life, who understood me better than anyone else, yeah it was my mom, I went into deep mourning for her. So I took up motorcycling, then went to Ireland, where her family is from and toured all over the country on a rented bike. I got to meet all the relations who knew my mother as a young lady. I did this over two summers. I came home with a deeper appreciation of who she was, her life, and her family. Now your job is to move past this woman. So you need to fill your heart with other beautiful things. I recommend travel.