How do you flirt with your female friends?

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1. If he’s finding excuses to initiate or extend a conversation with you

2. The subtle way would be compliments about your personality or appearance. He might say how he likes your laugh, or how smart you are, or interesting, or that you smell good, etc.

   A lot of us will try saying suggestive things, i.e. innuendo and so on, to see if the woman responds in kind or seems put off. It’s a bit risky, but more direct.

   Obviously if he’s inviting you to hang out, just the two of you, it’s also a good sign.

3. Context matters. If there is some type of complication i dont period. If we are both interested and single ill ask for a date. Im rarely single for long though. So thats a limited window.

4. She’s married, so I don’t have to worry about there being any hidden undertones. And so we just flirt away.

   But generally just talk about how she looks good, or accuse the other of wanting them, say that what they’re saying secretly has undertones. No issues with hands on each other, she braids my hair randomly. Stuff like that I suppose.

5. Mainly with compliments here and there, goodnight and good morning texts, talking for hours with her, making her laugh, opening up to her, NOT responding with short/one word replies, but using length responses, try to not be boring at all, etc

   Some things I picked up from flirting with girls online

6. Pretty much if he focus on you during group talks or just like to initiate and extend chitchat with you.

7. We always talk and are around each other in groups, like we gravitate to one another. Text not very often but sometimes, whenever I don’t see him for like more than a week he’s always like I haven’t seen you in so long! Our friends pick up on it too – once our friend has said you guys should get together and he said I’m the most beautiful girl he knows and gave me a hug. It was cute. Whenever we talk we are always smiling and making eye contact the whole time and banter with each other. If it was anyone else I would 100% be convinced but because of our situation it’s a lil complicated lol. He also knows I like him from me telling our friends so that’s why I’m iffy because he’s known and hasn’t proceeded. Lots of context to our story lol

8. I don’t flirt. I hate flirting because I always feel like it’s me being creppy. Even if the woman is clearly flirting with me first.

   I remember working with a woman who would constantly greet with me with “Hello gorgeous” and “Hey Handsome” and do other stuff like stroke me on the chest or arm. Constantly hug me and when the song “Girlfriend” by Avril Lagvine was playing in the warehouse radio. She would say stuff to me like “This is my song to you”

   Yet I never flirted back

9. I read this, and I don’t think I understood it right away because my original thought was “I don’t flirt with my female friends to see if they’re interested, because if they were they would make it very apparent”, than I kept reading.

   So if you’re interested “shoot your shot” as it were, as he probably won’t because he doesn’t want to make things weird with you.

10. Extended eye contact

11. I flirt with them but I’m not interested lol.