I have been on nearly 10 dates with this girl and I understand we are not inclusive yet but I must admit it puts me off that fact other male is sleeping in her bed even she says he is gay.. am I overreacting?
I have already slept with this girl a few times, so I’m little concerned for my health too. The other day she brought up the fact how we hadn’t used condoms and that she was worried about any STI’s and also the fact that she wasn’t aware there were five common ones along with asking me if I had been checked and panicking. She lives with flatmates but I don’t understand why he can’t stay downstairs on the couch (he is coming to see her from abroad), is she sleeping with him? even though he’s ‘gay’.
What does this sound like?
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1) get screened.
2) there’s no point in mentioning it. She’s not your partner.