Hi, basically a friend in elementary school passed away and I was wondering if I should go to his family house and send condolences. The issue is i dont know if he consider me a friend or even noticed me. I had a class with him and I was the one person he spoke to in that class, but he wouldn’t talk to me outside of class other than the time he would need a ride home. Then when school was over he dropped all contact with me and I would try to engage a conversation with him but a friend of his messaged me saying he doesn’t like me so I dont know if it would be respectful for me to enter his home and if his friends are there they would realize he didnt even like me
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If you’d like to pay your respects to his family, it would be appropriate to send a condolence card to his parents. It does sound like going to his house isn’t the best idea.
I’m sorry for your loss.
It would be kind to send a card or go over for a short period of time and share a few treasured memories of him. It wouldn’t make a difference that you ended up not being friends any more – it would be a kindness to be one more person sharing a good memory.