Hi,
I admit that this situation is giving me some doubts about my abilities, summing up my partner has never wanted oral sex and those times when I did, even though I personally love it, she asked me after a while to suspend and move on to full sexual intercourse, almost as if she didn’t feel pleasure or as if she didn’t care. She quietly practices oral sex on me, even complete, but nothing to do, on her it almost seems that she has no interest in this practice.
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I tried to tell her about it and she just told me that she hardly reaches orgasm and after a while she gets tired.
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Do you think I’m wrong about something?
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Thank you
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No, you’re not wrong.
Some people just don’t enjoy oral sex.
I hate getting my dick sucked, it’s not even remotely enjoyable.
It took me a moment to get comfortable with receiving oral sex.
A lot of it had to do with things in my head. To my I can only enjoy it when I first take a shower no matter what, I can be clean and showered even before but as long as I know he is going down on me I need to have another shower. Another thing was hair, I can’t enjoy when I’m not fully waxed down there. Sometimes girls have discharge, it also made me uncomfortable and was worrying about. Maybe she is also stressing out on other things that has not so much to do about your abilities?
Eventually I learned to enjoy it by talking with my partner and figuring out ways I like. So just Talk with her 🙂
You can still eat her out for shorter period of times as foreplay or even just to get a taste. That maybe is enough for her for now. And when she does gets into it, it’s easier for her to say you can keep going 😉. I do think you keep eating her out like this if she’s ok with it. It keeps your technique on point, it’s great foreplay, and she won’t stop giving you oral because it’s a one way street 😉
Male, my partner (f). Will blow me all day if I ask but does not like me eating her out. She finds it something she does not enjoy. We have talked about it many times and she is slowly being more open as to why and her feelings about it.