How to?

2 comments

1. It needs time and patience.

2. If you can’t unlove someone that you are madly inlove with, it means that this change that you want has a lot of resistance.

   So you need to discover the source of your own resistance to this change and resolve it first.

   For example, you might be willing to really get out of a situation with someone you love and stop feeling that way about them so you can move forward in your life.

   Now, other energies of you will say No to that change. A part of you thinks that going away and leaving this person behind will change you or impact you in some way that is unknown.

   And perhaps its telling you that loving someone even when they are harmful is a preferable option. Better the devil you know than the one you don’t as they say.

   If you really want to live for yourself and make that decision, then understand that choosing something unfamiliar is not necessarily a dangerous choice. If you know you can already handle the pain of being with him, you can also handle the pain of being without him, and allow yourself to heal again.

   Remember that the path that allows you to heal and grow again, is always the best, not necessarily the easiest.