Like does that happen from seeing what she looks like at first sight? Or develop when interacting in a daily setting (like work or school)?
In a situation like cold approaching a woman (for those that do it), is it just sexual attraction or do you immediately feel romantic attraction additionally from looking at her?
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All those things have happened, many times. So it depends
When they say hello to you, you know you’re in.
When they using your abbreviations/slang in their normal conversation
If it’s a cold approach, there’s no way to have any legitimate romantic attraction. it’s mainly sexual and you just hope there’s more there once you get to know her.
But for crushes, it’s usualy much deeper because I know her a little better.
Never, I trained myself to stop feeling like that a long time ago.
Physical attraction is immediate. One look at her is all it takes if she’s my type.
A crush takes more. I need to interact with her, be attracted to her personality and mannerisms, her mind. That takes knowing her for some time and being around her.
Usually not long after meeting. I generally know after a conversation if I’d be interested or if we are somewhat compatible.
I wouldn’t necessarily refer to it as romantic but more of a growing interest.