Why are Asian male and white female couples so rare in the UK?

7 comments

1. Mass generalisations generally aren’t a good idea, not all white “girls” like the same thing and Asia is a pretty big place. I’m not sure though that the mix you suggest is particularly rare, do you have any stats to support your statement?

2. I work with 2 people in such relationships and know a few more. Are you an Asian male struggling with the ladies?

3. In my opinion, the reverse is even more rare. I’ve never seen a white male and Asian female couple. Not one.

4. Because they think Asian guys have small lunchboxes.

5. Sorry for the racists in this thread (who might not think they are, but are being VERY racist) who are downvoting everything you say.

   Brutally honest viewpoint, a lot of women see East Asian men as modest, quiet, shy. Now this is right up some people’s street, so you’d have to be a mad incel to think this is universal (and don’t fall into that trap, a disturbing number of East Asian men do) but I know from experience dating East Asian girls that they often think this way. But, that could be a sample bias, because maybe I’ve just dated and spoken to girls who have that viewpoint, and that’s _why_ they want to be in a relationship with a Western guy.

   Men of East Asian heritage make up a good proportion of the world’s population, so that should tell you that it is perfectly possible to find someone. I’m just saying that it might be a bit more tricky in the West.

6. As someone who dated a south asian girl for nearly a year and never once met their family who, as far as I can tell, didnt actually know I existed:

   I think its probably due to family pressure

7. See I wouldn’t say they were that rare I mean especially with South Asians and White Partners I suppose it depends on where your from in the UK I mean I’m from Brum though pretty multicultural across the board, how I like it! ……..I mean I like Asian Woman as a White Lad just find there’s more feminity to Asian Woman!

   I’d say Far East Asian Lads and Lasses are rarer but most Chinese, Korean etc in my City are normally Students etc so not as integrated I feel!