I’m 19M, girlfriend 20F
been dating for 6 months
my love language is attention and time spending, but she doesn’t understand any of it
she replies after many hours (8+ sometimes) (granted she got college, but so do I, still I find enough time where I could reply to her)
she postpones our plans of hanging out to go out with her friends (it has happened a lotta times)
I’ve asked her politely a lot of times to please improve on this, and it’s better the next day, but falls right back to before on the next
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on one hand I feel selfish to bring this up and tell her repeatedly about this, but on the other, I just don’t feel loved from her, I feel just like every other person she has in her life, nothing special