My period is late by a couple days, which is insane, because it usually comes in a 28 day cycle religiously. It’s been over a month by like 3-4 days and I’m still not bleeding.
Last time I saw my boyfriend we wanted to try fingering me doggy, so I was on my stomach and he did the deed. At some point I felt something BIGGER and like jiggly?? And I was like oh shit is that a dick (should mention I’m a virgin). Fingers have always been a little hard from the bone but it suddenly felt softer.
He said he added an extra finger that day so it might’ve felt different and I didn’t think much of it. I should also mention how his pants and belt were on when I was done.
He’s freaking out with me at the possibility that I’m pregnant, but what if he’s just a really good actor, I’m really not sure what to do anymore.
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Edit: alright I’m realizing thinking this about my partner to begin with is super unhealthy. I need to talk to him about my trust issues and perhaps not being able to feel as safe as I thought I was (and getting a pregnancy test if this goes on for any longer)
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In me* not on me
You’re not pregnant.
If he didn’t put his dick in you then you’re not pregnant. Pretty sure you would have felt him cum in you if he did have sex with you. I suggest you go online and read a bit of about sex and sex Ed. I’m guessing you’re not getting any sex Ed at school.
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You should be able to tell the difference. Didn’t you feel his body closer to yours? Wasn’t he moving his fingers?
At the very least, I’d expect that you would have been able to hear his zipper come down and go back up.
Was there a lot of background noise or something that would have prevented you from hearing it?
There could be many reasons your period is delayed that aren’t pregnancy.
You can take a pregnancy test 2.5 to 3 weeks after the incident in question just for your own peace of mind. As long as your boyfriend isn’t a complete dirtbag, I’m assuming it’ll be negative.
I read this and was VERY concerned for your doggy.
“His pants and belt were on when we were done” do you trust him or not?
Are you wet now?
It’s very concerning that you’re not sure if your boyfriend sexually assaulted you or not. If you’re worried he’s lying to you and actually did rape you, that’s a pretty big red flag that your relationship isn’t healthy for you, regardless of whether he did or not. You need to feel safe with the people you have sex with.
Firstly if you have any concern at all that your boyfriend would have *sexually assaulted* you like that then you shouldn’t be with him.
Secondly, if your period is late you can get a test from the drug store and get an accurate result. Go get a test.
Okay girl, I don’t think your pregnant! When I first started messing around with my first boyfriend, I also feared this even though he didn’t put his penis inside. Your period could be late for a wide variety of reasons, so it’s best to take a deep breath and stay calm about it. If it gives you some piece of mind, take a test just so you can get past that fear.
What’s a little more concerning is that you think it’s possible your boyfriend deceived you and put his penis inside you rather than his fingers like you agreed. I hope you have a good conversation with him about this and get to the bottom of this. Sexual relationships need to be based on trust to be really successful.
Safest thing to do is take a preggers test.
You are definitely too young to be having sex
You would feel his hips hitting you or just feel him closer, and if ir was only the tip and not a complete penetration, it’s very difficult to get pregnant