I’m quite turned on by the thought of finishing on my wife’s face. I’ve always felt very ashamed of this desire, and for that reason, I’ve never brought it up.
I’m not really sure how to bring up the topic, and my embarrassment of this is causing me to get more stressed about this than necessary.
I’ve finished on her breasts plenty of times, and she’s okay with that. I’m wondering what might be a gentle/respectful way to bring up the idea of finishing on her face. I don’t want her to think I want to demean her.
Any thoughts?
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You gotta ask dude.
I get it, it’s hard to be open about our fantasies but as someone who spent years being sexually unfulfilled out of fear and/or frigid partners, you gotta communicate.
If she gives you blowjobs to completion, tell her that there was a time when your cum was on her lips/chin/whatever that you thought was super sexy, and ask her what she would think about getting more cum in her face.
By starting out from a place of “something we did turns me on” and expanding on that, it’s starting her from a place of feeling sexy. Some women don’t like facials because it feels degrading. So “I’d really like to cum on your face” out of the blue may sound like you are wanting more degradation than you necessarily do.
Or try “I love seeing my cum on your tits, I’ve thought about seeing it on your face too- what would you think about that?” Has a similar vibe too. Ask her from a point of her already being sexy and desired by you.