Most of the time when I try to initiate a conversation with someone
It goes like
How are you doing today
typical answers mostly
And then i end up in awkward silence
Sometimes I come with something interesting and
try to continue the conversation but It always turns
out that listener is always getting bored and starts to ignore me 🙂
Please tell me what do I do. Also I’m one of those people who still couldn’t figure out what exactly flirting means
Edit : any tips will be appreciated. I’m waiting for comments…
2 comments
It mostly has to do with the “aura” or “vibe” you’re projecting. You want to have a sense of enthusiasm, curiosity about the other person, passion about life, and fun playfulness. That sounds like a lot, but really those things all mesh together nicely. (And don’t they sound like a fun person??)
So have a few things that you’re passionate about, and ask about the other person with TRUE interest and curiosity. See what floats their boat, and ask follow up questions about it. LINK to what they say with questions or comments of your own.
Flirting is just being playful, but with a person you have an interest in. So, you might make a playful remark, and then touch them lightly on the arm. If you’re going to tease someone, tease them about something they’re GOOD at, or that’s positive about them.
Enthusiasm is the opposite of boredom. For any and all genders.
Good luck!
It is easier for people to talk about Things they Like to do. Ask about their hobbies or If they have pets.
Then it is easier to to ask further questions, because you can ask things you really want to now about those topics (Name of the pet or why or where they do this hobby.
I’ll try to find Out what is ‘special’ about a Person so I really have interest in them and the Things they’ll do.
Hope that helps 🙂