10 months together.
We recently talked about how we felt and he said he feels I still have my ‘walls’ up.
I don’t want them up. I’m nturally a shy person and my last long term partner was abusive towards me. I’m not even sure what walls up is?
What would you describe as ‘walls being up’ and can you give me an example? And how have you lowered them?
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he thinks you dont trust him
He, should be providing you with the example, hmm?
There’s ‘naturally shy’, and, there’s anxious/nervous. Would you say you’ve a nervous/anxious disposition?
I feel like this was me and my relationship went down the pan. Perhaps walls up is not telling them how you are feeling or how sharing your emotions in general. Along with that, perhaps is not sharing hopes and dreams for the future.
Tell her your feelings.
Why does he need your walls down? Is there a greater issue in the relationship?