I(24 M) matched with a girl on Tinder a few weeks ago and we seemed to hit it off. I learned through past experience to ask to meet up early and she said yes( we arranged to meet on that weekend). I got her Snapchat and gave her my phone number(because I’m not on Snapchat very much), and I also ask her to face time. And she said “I would really like that”, I said sometimes that would work for me to face time, and then.. complete radio silence. I have not heard a word from her since. I sent a follow-up text a day later and also nothing. Obviously, we never met up because we didn’t firm up a time/location but I was left just kind of confused. It seemed to be going fine and then she just dropped off the face of the planet. What did I do?
3 comments
perhaps, nothing
she may have been in touch with several others, one of those clicked, and you were left in the dust forgotten
girls get 10 to 50 times the level of interest through sites, than men do I think
which, is strong reason to ‘close’ for a quick meetup, just coffee?, to help stand out from the crowd
as much as I love facetime and calls over text they give me major anxiety when its someone new. she couldve got nervous or just not interested. you did nothing wrong.
She was texting you while she was texting 69 other dudes and apparently she swiped on someone more chadlike so your attention is now worth absolute zero.
It is what it is. The grass is always greener on the other side and the next swipe. Tinder is heaven for attention seeking girls. And a depressing dump for most average men hoping for genuine contact.