I made a post few weeks back about forgetting how to french kiss after not doing it for so long. My default make out style has become repeated open mouth kisses on her bottom lip, each kiss ending with a ‘smooch’ noise, 0 tongue involvement, like a movie kiss almost?
This is eating me alive, especially considering I grasped it naturally from my first kiss @ 13 and somehow lost the entire concept when it matters most and my new way is just boring for my gf and I both. I remember how it felt to have that natural rhythm of tongues flowing together and want nothing more than to do it again. The only direction she’s given is to “hold the suck” which makes some sense but doesn’t explain how our mouths should align or interact.
The only thing I’m fairly sure of is that our lips need to stay locked for tongues to flow, rather than parting after each kiss and trying to slip some in. Any input or tips are greatly appreciated .
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Don’t overthink it! When your lips are together both of your mouths should be open and then just stick ur tongue in. Don’t be too aggressive about it and you should be good. It should come pretty naturally.
I was the same, my long term ex hated French kissing . My new partner adores to kiss this way. She had to school me once more . And just last week she said I’m a great kisser . I was very pleased . Don’t over think it just get passionate and be in the moment .
Don’t think at all. Just talk with your mouth and your tounge and you’ll kinda just mirror eachother and hand off the lead seamlessly of you two click. If you don’t click, sometimes it’ll never get to that point. That’s just life tho not every shoe fits