First off, let me go on record of saying that I am not homophobic at all. This is merely a concern of mine about his behavior in conversations we have been having over the last year and a half.
I am 50 year sold, and my friend, lets call him “Joseph” is 56. We have know each other for 40 years now. We are both married with kids. He is a retired cop and very “macho italian” kinda guy. He tells me that he cheats on his wife one occasion and has regular gils that he has sex with here and there. Loves his wife, the whole 9 yards, just needs sex more. Ok, whatever.
My concern.
I sometimes, out of guy talk, will send him pics of a girl i see online or whatever, and ask him if he thinks she is cute, attractive, etc. Guy talk. He will reply with answers like, “Did you fuck her” and I will say “No! LOL Just showing her to you.” and he will reply back with “Why are you showing me her if you havnt been with her?”
On the other hand, he has been on and off asking me to do what he calls “buddy jerking” with him. He has been trying to get me to come over to him and masturbate with him in his basement. I have no desire to do this, but he is always trying to engage in conversations to get me to try it.
He will talk about wanting to see my penis and o that stuff, but won’t talk lengthy about a pic of a girl i show him? What is this all about?
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He may just want to try new things. We can’t tell. Ask him.
oh he’s definitely gay.
He could be bi or gay, or he could just enjoy the platonic intimacy of jerking off with another guy (there are plenty of guys who feel that way about it even if they’re straight).
The more important thing, though, is: why do you care? Why does it matter? That would be a good question to ponder.