Hey there! So I’m 28M and haven’t really done much dating in my life. I’ve recently lost a ton of weight and been on apps and stuff more lately and after a few first dates with different women, I’ve found a nice girl who seems to like me and we’re going on a second date to brunch tomorrow after just having met two days ago and texting regularly.
Only thing is, I’ve not had much experience with intimacy or knowing when to progress to certain stages when dating. Things like when is a good time to kiss or having dinner dates at home, that sort of thing. I’m worried I’ll come across as hesitant or disinterested if I don’t kinda check the boxes that are expected these days with dating, but am also worried that I could freak her out if I bring it up and try to just be casually open about my inexperience.
Any advice you could offer would be welcomed!
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I want you to remember these 3 things.
Take it easy and go with the flow.
Don’t force anything.
Breaking physical barrier.
The last thing is very important, the main step is to break the physical barrier, a hug when you first see here, placing hand in the lower back for a more sexual hug not a friend hug. Hand over shoulder in certain occasions when you see a opening. For the kiss it all depends on here if she is fast paced or slower. Watch her reactions when you make regular physical contact and that will determine the time of the kiss. Basically make small physical moves watch here reactions and then adjust.