I’ve always been a fan of grinding when the woman is on top as opposed to the up and down.
Primarily because when they’re going up and down all I can do is wince and hope they don’t go too far up, miss the hole; and bang my penis straight into their pelvis breaking it. It honestly makes me always on edge whenever a girl rides in this way. You never know how aware they are with the length they have.
Anyone else or is this just me?! How do I stop feeling this way?
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Yes.
Keep your hands on her hips, control the amplitude.
Yeah, that shit hurts if she goes up too far, you slip out and she comes down on your unsuspecting dick. She was bouncing like she was doing speed squats.
This happened to me. I was out of commission for almost 2 months
Yes, i’ve had a few bendy incidents. I try to move my hips to meet hers so i don’t pop out.
Arc your back and ass up. It’ll go deeper (which she’ll appreciate) remove the possibility that she’ll miss on the down swing
I have a safety mechanism for this issue. Mine doesn’t point straight up when laying down. It’s kind of 90 degree toward my body. So if it happens to pop out, it slaps my stomach like it’s spring loaded.
It’s happened. I thought she broke my penis once.
Been there done that, it hurts and ruins the mood. It’s easier to have them elevate and for you to pound from underneath.
I got scared just thinking about it.
Tell her not up and down , just e rocking motion back and forth . It will go in and out just enough to hit the g spot , and even if she goes fast, it won’t slip out
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My dick hurt reading this post.
Always willing to take the risk
It’s happened. Ended up in her ass and my dick was in pain, so was she. Do not recommend
never had the up and down thing happen really, grinding just strikes me as more natural, not to mention best way to hit the g spot
Limiter strap seems reasonable.
Two waist belts with an appropriate length of chain in between.
I wasn’t before. Good God, man.
honestly the grinding motion feels better anyway 🤷🏻♂️ up and down is more of a porn thing in my opinion lol
you clearly haven’t had the badge of honor of having your fully engorged penis folded in half
Never had that problem. I’m in control of the thrusting in that position when she’s not grinding me (thrusting her hips back and forth). Tbh the grinding is the best part. I’ve never had a partner who has wanted to bounce up and down actually. Maybe it’s more of a porn thing… 🤷🏻♂️
My wife doesn’t do much on top stuff. Every time she did, she was hold her stomach and say “you’re stabbing me…”. So lots of grinding as up and down “stabbed” her too much.
What are the chances of her missing in 2 strokes?
Yes. This isn’t talked about enough. My urologist told me he refuses to engage in woman on top for this reason. Penile fracture can lead to Peyronie’s disease which can permanently impair your ability to have sex. Holding her down or grinding are good mitigation strategies but this is a very risky activity that nobody talks about.
Fuck. I had my dick broke that way
Im a Female and I confess I have done this to a guy before and also had it done to me…. He was abit too aggressive ended up missing and then SUPRISE his cock went full length and speed into my ass 🎯🎯🎯🎯
I say a statistic that the significant majority of of penis injuries (think ER visit) during sex are from girl on top positions. I’d say your concerns are valid.
My dick hurts reading this post and I’m a woman
New fear unlocked!
This happened to a friend of mine. He broke it.
He said it sounded like snapping a piece of celery.
You’re welcome.
That’s why you keep a one hand on their hip to make sure they never actually come off the dick, you’re basically pulling them back. Think of it as like hand checking in basketball ( before they changed the rules), use use your strength to guide them where you want them to go.
I am so happy now that not many of the girls I have been with preferred not to climb 🤣
Hold her hips and control it, or hammer her from the bottom.