For me my issues is not so much as to knowing where to meet people or approaching others. It’s the fact that I’m almost bored and uninterested in talking to others but I also want to talk to them and be friends. I know what I said makes no sense but that’s the only way I can describe it. For example I can have convos with people but I feel like the other person isn’t as engaged and that brings me down, or if I’m having a convo with someone at work and they break off the convo and go talk to someone else that makes me feel like. I’m not being as funny, charming or active as I should be. I know I shouldn’t think about Covos and interacting with people because thinking about it makes it seem less natural and you over think. But the only way to improve is to try talking to people which means actively doing things I would other wise wouldn’t. This compounded by the fact that almost no one ever approaches me or initiates the convo with me can be pretty demoralizing. I’ve a history of being abused, mental illness and being a shut in for almost a decade. So I know my perspective of things is twisted by my brain and it isn’t the true reality of the situation and i understand there won’t be immediate change in a year or even two. But I would like to know how to map out what I want to change about myself.