Had a talk with some of my fellow small girl friends and we found out that their partner also carry or lift them up quite a lot – some of them, mostly during sex. Why is that?
When I ask mine I only get nothing and his smile as response. Haha.
Edit: I actually don’t like it when he carry me that’s why I asked my partner to stop it. After reading your comments and knowing the reason why guys like it, I will initiate it next time. I hope it makes him happy š
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Primal thing, like me strong me have way with you! I dated a super tiny girl once and we both thought it was hot when I’d pick her up and fuck the shit of her and toss her around. I’m 6’2 she was 4’11.
Itās just a novelty of being much stronger than someone. Itās an ego boost and itās fun.
There are two types of people small enough to lift up: kids and tiny women. And you shouldnāt touch any of them. Except your kids or your partner, you can touch them. So thatās what you get to do, and you want to do it all the time. But that would be bothersome for them, so you save it for times when theyāre expecting you to touch them, like while you play with your kids or when youāre manhandling your wife the way she likes during sex. She gets picked up and tossed around and flipped over, etc. Your kids get thrown into the fuckin air. Both things are coming from the same place of enjoying our novel strength.
It’s a domination thing. He is getting off on using her like a toy. She is getting off on being tossed around by a strong male.
I love grabbing her legs or butt without it looking wierd.
Back to our cave man roots.
Kind of a different perspective but I dated a girl who was 6’1″ and she was into weightlifting, mostly squats and deadlifts. I just felt like picking her up, and when I did she seemed really happy. Later she told me it made her feel cute and girly, and just knowing it made her feel that way and made her happy made me want to pick her up all the time
Iāll do things like carry her upstairs to bed, move her where I want her, etc.
The caveman in me thinks āThis is mine, Iāll take it how I wantā (Consensually, of course)
She likes being manhandled a bit, and that Iām strong enough to do so.
Win-win.
I do (and did) it because my wife (and the other women) liked it, plain and simple. I know I was a hell of a lot stronger than most of the guys they dated, and when I would pick them up they would usually let out a cute little squeal. When I would look down, they would be blushing a little, and smiling a lot.
As for the bedroom, thatās just a thing that was fun. I had a girlfriend who said no one had ever done that before, and she loved it. Always asked me to do it to her, which as an added bonus, gave me a good body workout too.
Well im pretty sure most woman like when we do this i could be wrong also its just nice picking her up making her feel secure but also at our mercy it is part dominating and part Protecting in a way it also makes us feel strong which is allways a win
Me.
After knowing her forever, my love and knowledge of her is all I need.
Dominance
it’s a novel way of experiencing her, for one. you probably don’t give it much thought, but you’ve certainly tested the weight of something in your hand as a way to know it better.
it’s also one of the few ways we can use a lot of our strength on her without hurting her.
I’ve done this to almost all my partners. No regard to size. The more sub they were they more they enjoy it. If they are big it’s more of a novelty and they get a kick out of that which I enjoy and if they are small they are more comfortable in it and like feeling small compared to me. It’s probably just a power play. It’s really fun and hot in and out of bed as long as both people are into that.
Smaller girls probably get that treatment a lot more because people in general are heavy and we tend to underestimate how heavy a small girl is. I know small girls that have experienced a lot of guys try to pick them up during sex and just fail miserably because they didn’t understand that curling 50kg is fucking hard
She likes that Iām strong enough to throw her around and I like doing it so it just works out. ĀÆ_(ć)_/ĀÆ
Plus itās fun so itās just a whole team win right there
I carried my last girlfriend a lot. We both liked it; it made me feel strong, like a guardian and protector, and she liked how girly and wanted it made her feel.
And it’s just plain romantic as hell. Guys love going for that more than people think.
Plus, I’m a taller dude (6’3″) and I work out a lot, and I like to show off the fruits of my labor by effortlessly picking up and carrying a girl and carrying her to bed.
As a tall woman (6ā1) who is dating a tall man (6ā7), I too enjoy being picked up, carried around, and made to feel small.
When I started to date, I noticed women enjoyed being dominated. Not in like a crazy dominatrix way, but they liked being moved, controlled(in some ways), and having you show aggressive behavior. Things like pulling hair, being on the bottom, smacking their butts, picking them up, turning them during sex, etc.
As someone who usually is gentle with people, I had complaints from GFs telling me to “just do it.” or “don’t asked me.”. So, I started being more forward and more aggressive with it comes to sex and being physical with women in general, and it seems to have worked in my favor. I think it reflects confidence to your partner when you do stuff like that.
I’ve yet to meet a woman who didn’t appreciate me being easy able to move or carry her.
Some girls are the kind who will literally jump into your arms and wrap their legs around you.
Iām a middle age petite woman and I enjoy my bf picking me up. Itās a comforting thing I guess š
Lol I was recently hooking up with this man and he wanted to carry me down the stairs. I was scared that he was going to throw me down then so I asked him to put me down š it was sweet but you never know if youāre hooking up with Ted Bundy.
Fun fact: Most women can pickup their boyfriends/gfs. Its a matter of technique and not trying to walk while carrying. So practice with your friends and surprise your SO with the reverse UNO.
Iām stronk boy
When my wife and I were just friends (17 years ago. ^_^ ), she would say things like “I need a man that can pick me up and carry me around” regarding her dating…ummm…fuller figured men, not realizing that although I looked lean in work clothes, I was kinda built and strong underneath it all. When we finally started dating, I would randomly pick her up and carry her around, or garb her bar stool and just slide her closer to me without getting up from mine. Needless to say, we’re still together, and I still randomly grab her, pick her up, and carry her to the bedroom. š
I was on a trip to Thailand this past winter and landed at an island at very low tide and almost a hard mud flat a couple hundred feet from shore, the girl was wearing cutesy shoes and a dress so I had her sit on my shoulderā¦.there were definitely other girls giving there dudes looks like āwhy arenāt you carrying meā
I donāt make a habit of it but the circumstance definitely called for it
Some ladies like it.
My wife is on the thick side in a good way, from lifting and some post pregnancy weight (I like thick anyway). I pick her up all the time and I think it makes her feel lighter. I don’t know. For me it’s like I can literally pick you up and run if I want to and you can’t do anything about it. Somehow that makes me happy. Maybe I’m a caveman
My girlfriend who is petite didn’t like it when I carried her before she expressed it and I stopped. But she clarified that people always tried to carry her even in nonsexual situations bc she was lighter than most people and it made her feel uncomfortable/bullied and an easy target. In turn, I clarified that I didn’t carry her bc I felt like she was light but bc it was cute and that I enjoyed doing it. My ex gf was 6ft and 90kgs and I still carried her a lot. She got less uncomfortable after that explanation ans genuinely enjoys being carried around in private. Hope she’d let me carry her at concerts one day. š
My wife likes it. Calls it free rides. Not sexual just fun.
My wife is taller than me and until a few years ago she was quite heavy. I pick her up to make her feel smaller and she loves it.
Wife carrying.
If I win I get wifes weight in beer.
Its cute
My partner is 5’8″ and curvy. They love it because before me they dated guys who couldn’t pick them up. She loves feeling dainty and petite and all those traditionally feminine traits when I lift and swing her around.
Because she instantly gets turned on when I pick her up and subsequently gives me the bedroom eyes.
Girlfriend is a princess, so no need to walk for her.
So they feel wanted. So they know i want them. So they feel small (in a good way), so they feel my strength, so that they know that I can.
I had a FWB that liked it when she was on top I could get my hands under her legs and move her up my body until she was sat on my face. She was fun.
After diving deep into my psyche after reading the question here is what I have concluded:
Men are protective and territorial by nature, so when we carry you up it’s our way of showing two things, first how we want to protect our partners from anything even if it is the ground itself ( and yes we know you are strong and independent and all of this but damn I’m going to protect you anyway). Second, we have always seen parents carrying their kids around and we see it as an act of unconditional love, so we imitate this behaviour to the woman who owns our heart.
But
It makes us feel dominant.
because i can. carried her from kitchen chair sex to bed sex last night! seamless penetration walking through the house to continue in a more comfy area.
From the subject I thought this would be about emotional support.
I am stupid strong. I’ve even competed in amateur strongman competitions, my girlfriend’s love that i can just snatch them both up and carry them when I please. One of them is a feminine repressed single dad raised broadly built farm girl who’s never really felt girly. She enjoys being the suddenly petite feeling little woman just hoisted up for fun lol
My girl loves it. When we go to the beach, I make it a point to fireman carry her out of the water and put her down on the towel. She says it turns her on. I feel manly when I can pick her up and carry her and she says she fantasizes about it now. Win/win
As a 6ā2 female. This is on my bucket list, the same list that petting a unicorn is on. Lol dreamers dream